Sunday, March 2, 2014

The Symbiotic Relationship of Veera Tripathi and Mahabir Bhati

These are my thoughts and interpretation of Imtiaz Ali’s film ‘Highway’. This article has spoilers.

I admit it. Having seen Imtiaz Ali’s ‘Highway’ three times in the movie hall and two times on my laptop in a week’s time, I can conclusively admit that I am obsessed with the movie. More than the movie, I am obsessed with the characters of Veera Tripathi and Mahabir Bhati, and the rare relationship that they share. Unlike all those who feel it was just another love story between two incompatible beings, I believe the psychology of it is much deeper and complex.

Veera Tripathi has always lived a life with imposed boundaries. She stays within hotel premises during holidays, is driven around the city with security, and has to be ‘tameezdar’ with people she loathes. So when she is exposed to visual wonders of the interiors of India she cannot help but explore a life that lets her be herself and potentially fulfill her dreams. Notice the scene when she is apologizing to Mahabir for being rude to her and he shouts at her and tells her 

 ‘Apne baap ke ghar dikhaiyo tameez

This stumps her as she has always been told to be ‘tameezdar’, even to her uncle who used to abuse her when she was a child. She grows fond of Mahabir even though he hits her, drags her, gags her, and is almost always harsh towards her because he becomes a kind of protector that even her parents weren’t. He saves her from the advances of Goru and this probably becomes the foundation of her affection towards him.  Compare the attitude of Vinay, Veera’s fiancé, and Mahabir towards Veera. Vinay is polite but discourages her from stepping out at night for some fresh air and tells her ‘Maine kaha tha’ when she is held hostage. On the other hand, Mahabir is harsh but lets her be herself. With Mahabir, she can be rude, wash her hair in dirty water, climb trees, sing and dance on roads, travel on bus rooftops, trek on snow-clad mountains, and even hold a gun. She can share her vulnerabilities with him and can demand a hug when she needs it. Veera Tripathi is not in love with Mahabir but she needs him to find her true self.

  ‘Hi Veera. Kaisi ho yaar? Kaisi ho… Soch ke batati hun’.     

Mahabir Bhati himself is a product of a harsh childhood comprising a violent father and a mother who had been a victim of rural prostitution. He has surrendered himself to fate of a criminal and does not fear the consequences of kidnapping the daughter of a powerful man. 

 ‘Kutto kutto ki hi maut marogo’

He understands more about bullets and crime. 

 ‘Ek goli me aadmi khatam ho jaata hai na?’
‘Do aadmi. Ja pe chale hai aur jo chalawe hai.’

But when Veera smothers him with her innocence, he cannot help but reminisce and yearn for the motherly love that was once showered on him by his mother. He, who at first hits and gags Veera, becomes surprisingly tolerant with her encroachments into his past. However determined he is to sell her off at a brothel, he fails to bring himself to push her into a life from which there is no coming back – a life that resembles his own. He has committed three murders and he knows there are only two paths: a long life of a fugitive or a short life with a few moments with a girl who is giving him everything he has ever yearned for – care, feminine tenderness, and a simple domestic life. Not surprisingly, he chooses the latter. And when she eventually gives him a glimpse of his new chosen life, he cannot help but cry aloud on the realization that this is what he wants dearly but cannot have it for long. 

 ‘Ye kabhi na ho sake hai. Bahut duur nikal gaye ho mai’

Mahabir did not love Veera. He just needed her to replicate the few good moments he had in his life and to comfort him before a certain death.

I personally love the story because it invokes in you strong emotions that you may or may not relate to. Through circumstances, two difficult lives converge into a symbiotic relationship and create a beautiful space for themselves that is peaceful, simple, meaningful, and real. You can almost feel their desperate need to be together irrespective of the place or condition. But then a shot is fired and everything you have ever hoped for is taken away from you and there is little that you can do about it. There is a feeling of extreme helplessness that you must deal with.


Veera eventually finds herself but loses the means. Her mind is now free and reborn with new life. She can experience the wonders of the world just as a child does. 


9 comments:

  1. Meaningful writing for a meaningful movie !!!

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  2. Love love love this movie and your review expressed similar emotions i felt accurately.

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  3. Love love love this movie and your review expressed similar emotions i felt accurately.

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  4. Dear Gautam, let me disagree with you. From my point of view )) I am 35 and I experienced lots of things in my life , I can add that every woman, who never had a REAl or actual father, in her future partner's will try to find the ONE who will protect her, and be like a ''father'' as well. You can see the main thing which happens in the beginning is, that Mahabir, PROTECTING veera from Goru)))who tried to rape her. what else you want, for woman this can be the main and important reason also. woman always admires / specially one who hadbeen assaulted by relative / the man, who stands for her. unlike her fiancee Vinay . OK. and Veera sais him she doesnt want children. of course she cant say anything else when she knows their journey will not bring them to happy end. we knew as well. i felt that hero will be killed. so the love was the LOVE.Regards. Iam from Armenia.and watched thismovie whenevr found with eng subs. and i Prefer to watch with subs, ususally im not comfrotable to read all the time, but now iam enjoyinh to hear the dialogs , and to catch the blossom of veera's first love . bye bye

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  5. Mahabir was slowly falling for her. He opens up gradually to her dominance. He fukfills her crazy requests. He first sets her free but then after she chases him takes her along. He takes her to the mountains and also gets a house for her. He throws his gun away as per her advice and keeps looking at her with amazement and longing .

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  6. This is a good insight. I too personally don't believe it's love as we expect love to be. In some sense you can say that it's love - but it seems more like the both of them have longed for something for so long and found it in each other. It isn't love that is supposed to sustain forever (assuming that many yearn for them to be married etc). I think even Vera knew it when she said she didn't want to marry him or have his kids. He knew it too. But this companionship had to happen. It helped Mahabir fulfill his dreams at the end. And it helped Veera move on to the next chapter in her life. Okay I'm done now lol. You might be weirded out that I commenting on this so many years since the movie came out, but I just only watched it and was looking for a write-up to express my feelings. Thanks for this!

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  7. This is a good insight. I too personally don't believe it's love as we expect love to be. In some sense you can say that it's love - but it seems more like the both of them have longed for something for so long and found it in each other. It isn't love that is supposed to sustain forever (assuming that many yearn for them to be married etc). I think even Vera knew it when she said she didn't want to marry him or have his kids. He knew it too. But this companionship had to happen. It helped Mahabir fulfill his dreams at the end. And it helped Veera move on to the next chapter in her life. Okay I'm done now lol. You might be weirded out that I commenting on this so many years since the movie came out, but I just only watched it and was looking for a write-up to express my feelings. Thanks for this!

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  8. This is a good insight. I too personally don't believe it's love as we expect love to be. In some sense you can say that it's love - but it seems more like the both of them have longed for something for so long and found it in each other. It isn't love that is supposed to sustain forever (assuming that many yearn for them to be married etc). I think even Vera knew it when she said she didn't want to marry him or have his kids. He knew it too. But this companionship had to happen. It helped Mahabir fulfill his dreams at the end. And it helped Veera move on to the next chapter in her life. Okay I'm done now lol. You might be weirded out that I commenting on this so many years since the movie came out, but I just only watched it and was looking for a write-up to express my feelings. Thanks for this!

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